In my little world "I am Queen"

Tuesday, March 18, 2008


The email was sent…

I am out of town, actually country, can you keep him on the evening of the 19th say around 7 or 8ish then the rest of the week? I am only asking because I have to leave for the airport at 3AM and I do not want to disturb his sleep by dropping him off at your house that early.

The reply…

No, I have plans that night.

My first gut reaction was to punch the computer screen after the email of, “so, are you saying you do not want your child or are you doing this because you think you are punishing me?,” was typed to be sent but deleted - I hate to tell you this but - you are not punishing me, you are punishing him.

I never give up any time with him – it is not fair to him – and why short change myself? I love him with every fiber of my being and want to inhale all the time I can with him. I will always rearrange my schedule no matter what the cost or circumstance. I just wish the other side felt the same way. But you – you seem to give him up for the party – I say the party can wait, he is more important.

Plan B
Aunt D and Gma – who fight over when they can see him or even have him for a sleepover, which is hardly ever. It is actually nice to know people fight over having your boy.



Blogger family affairs said...

I so know that feeling...I have given up asking now, it's just not worth it.

5:58 AM  

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