Accused

Why is it when a spouse chooses to leave there is the automatic accusation of everything from A to Z? Can society just not believe that there were/are private issues that the couple could not work out?

It is more hurtful to be put thru accusations then the actual separation or divorce proceedings. So the next time you want to be the gossipmonger make sure you know what you're talking about.

One last thing, you really have no business talking about the couple in the first place. It is most likely you don't know what you're talking about in the first place.